Family Gatherings

It takes place on Friday every week and every member of the family is expected to be there. It is only when one has a very excusable engagement that he or she can be allowed to miss the weekly gathering. The arrangement is so much entrenched in the family that it has become a norm. Everyone takes Friday evenings to be synonymous with the family meeting.
This gathering is intended to allow the family members to reflect on their lives, how the week had been and also share and discuss their challenges and achievements. We are a closely-knit family and this event avails a much-needed platform that is used to help one another when needed. It is the responsibility of the members to help the other to stand on his own and face the various life challenges. The achievements and positive occurrences and also celebrated in the meetings. My father always wants me to be able to stand on my own and face various challenges in life and he uses the gathering to encourage me a lot. There are two theories that appear to be very applicable in this noble tradition in my family. They ate the attachment theory and the family system theory.
Bjorklund &amp. Blasi (2011) defines the attachment theory to be a psychological model that tries to describe various aspects of interpersonal relations between individuals. This is not a general theory of relationship but rather one that addresses a specific facet of various interpersonal relationships. It reveals and tries to explain how a person reacts or behaves within a certain relationship when they are hurt, separated from people they love or perceive a certain threat to the relationship. The attachment basically depends on the individual’s ability to develop and have trust in himself and the other party in the relationship (Titelman, 2012). An example is among infants where attachments direct the child to seek proximity with the caregiver or the mother when they perceive a certain threat. They do this expecting that they will be protected from any danger when they are new the mother or the care giver.